Why Getting Photographs of Cousins Together Matters More Than You Think
There is something quietly magical about the relationship between cousins. It sits in a space all of its own. Not quite siblings. Not quite friends. But often the people who grow up knowing your whole story without ever needing it explained.
Cousins are the ones who share the same grandparents, the same Christmas traditions, the same slightly chaotic family gatherings. They are linked by history before they are even old enough to understand what that means. And yet, when we look back through our photo albums, how often do we realise there are hardly any photographs of them together?
We photograph birthdays. We photograph individual milestones. We photograph siblings beautifully and often. But cousins? They are usually captured in rushed phone snaps, half cut off, mid chaos, usually at the end of a party when everyone is tired.
And that is such a shame. Because cousin photographs are not just nice to have. They are important.
The Cousin Relationship Is Unlike Any Other
Cousins often grow up as built in best friends. They get to experience family life together without the daily intensity of living under the same roof. That space creates something special. As children, cousins are adventure buddies. Running between houses. Making dens at grandparents homes. Whispering secrets during family gatherings. Laughing at the same old stories retold again and again.
As adults, cousins often become emotional anchors. The ones who remember who you were before life got complicated. The ones who understand family history without explanation. The ones who share grief and joy in a deeply connected way.
That relationship deserves to be documented.
Childhood With Cousins Is Fleeting
One of the biggest reasons cousin photography matters is time. Childhood does not move slowly. It rushes past.
Cousins often see each other in bursts. Holidays. Birthdays. Occasional weekends. And because of that, their growth feels sudden. One minute they are the same height. The next, someone has shot up, someone has lost their baby teeth, someone has become shy, someone suddenly confident.
Photographing cousins together freezes a chapter that passes faster than we realise. It captures who they were to each other at that exact moment in time.
Those photographs become proof that they shared childhood together. That they belonged to the same story.
So When Jessica Rang Me…
she asked if I would photograph her two daughters alongside her sister’s two children and I did not hesitate. Three teenagers and a little one, all photographed together in my new studio.
It felt like such a lovely way to end the year. I loved capturing them together as sisters and also together as cousins, bringing two different relationship dynamics into the same session. Memories banked to be passed down and shared with generations of cousins to come of Eliza, Emilene, Edie and Elva 🧡
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